WOMEN HEAR THIS!!! (And the Men that love them)

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Sep 27, 2017
2 min read

You can be a mermaid, a beauty queen but your man will still be unfaithful to you. You can have all the degrees in the world and still have an unfaithful man beside you. You can be at the top of the food chain in your career and your husband would be sleeping around.

Some of you reading this would think & say,

'I said it! Every man is the same, they can't stay faithful to a woman!'

I will say to you that just thought this, that is also one of the reasons you will be cheated on. Because you are more concerned about the smoke instead of putting off the fire.

'But hold on! Am a virtuous woman, am a Proverbs 31 woman! My husband won't cheat on me!' you might say.

Infidelity more often than not is a consequence of some underlying factors, one of which I want to talk about today.

Proverbs 5:19 (NIV)

.....may you ever be CAPTIVATED by her love.

Proverbs 5:19 (NASB)

....Be EXHILARATED always with her love.

Proverbs 5:19 (NKJV)

And always be ENRAPTURED with her love.

TIPS

• Be Captivating, Exhilarating. Enrapture him with LOVE.

• Don't let MOTHERHOOD overshadow your WIFEHOOD.

• Keep the testosterone in you in PERMANENT RECESSION. Don't wear the trousers ever! Don't be the leader, don't take decisions in the house without your husband's consent, including decisions concerning your own life & career.

• Don't be independent of your man, enjoy the dependence.

• Always look to him for guidance and direction.

• Paul said that a woman should not to talk in church, not because they are not supposed to do ministry rather because she is supposed to seen as been dependent on her man.(1 Corinthians 14:34-35)

• Wives, reflect your husband.

• Eliminate the word 'I', 'Me', Mine'... in your vocabulary such as 'I did this for the house', 'I bought this', 'Oh how will I pay the children's school fees?' 'I will travel to do this' etc

These are some of the reasons why most men abandon their responsibilities in the home like providing, caring for you so you can be the 'man' since you have shown him you are able and capable. And his responses to your lack of captivating skills is that, he withdraws his emotional attachment to you and merely exists in the house.