"MY HUSBAND IS CHEATING ON ME 😳 I THINK!"

Excerpts of my advice to that subject...

...Know something for sure

1. Talk won't work. You will only make matters worse

2. All you have to do is Pray! Not all of it hahahahahahaaaaaaa.

3. Beat the others at looking good and watching your weight and all.

4. As men close on middle age, they will start desiring somethings, it's part of middle age crisis.

5. Be a girlfriend again: don't get beclouded with mother duties and wife duties (though very important out add GF duties to them), be his girlfriend!!!!!

This might be the most important point am giving you. The man doesn't want an overly spiritual woman in the house when he comes back.

Do all your threshing in secret or away from him in your war room.

•Bring back sexiness

•Bring back crazy talk

•Share crazy text message

•Share crazy photos

•Pay genuine attention to HIM, HIM O!!!! He wants to know he's important not just only when there's a financial need to sort out or family issues. After a while he feels that's all he's good for and nothing else.

•All this routine in the bed should be stop. Every move in bed can be predicted : from kissing (if there's any) to smooching (for a while if it even exists sef), then the deed is done. Probably 1 or 2 styles 'Okwu agwu' (end of story).

Routine isn't exciting, the man wants more. This is what drives the man to seek more.

Also when he sees it is only your sexual needs that drive you to sex. Probably when you come, you care less and are no longer invested in it. Or you don't generally show excitement when he's 'doing it'. A man wants to feel he's pleasuring you adequately and you are invested to pleasuring him adequately.

•There are 'small-small' issues here and there, that need to be addressed too like taking him for granted.

•These small girls go out of their way to invest in this relationships with married men and the guys see their enthusiasm and that makes the man feel important. But for the wives, familiarity has finished them.

All those things he wants from these girls,

DO IT!

BECOME IT!

VOW TO EXCEL AND BEAT THEM ALL!!!

Marriage is work especially for the woman, men get bored easily and they need constant excitement so you must be inventive and reinventive.

When your relationship is not worked on, it will fail!!!!!!

The sooner you realise that the better.

No magic wand will make it work if the 2 parties are not pledged to seeing it work.

Trust me women have a lot to grapple with, I know. Career, kids, home etc but God doesn't give us more we can bear so inside is unusual ability from God. You just need to tap it and connect to that grace.

Grace is released by FAITH not PRAYERS.

But prayers are very important to ward of any satanic attack.

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